I was sitting at my desk at home, going through the bills one Saturday afternoon. Carl came in. He took hold of me and led me to the bedroom. on the bed he stripped off my skirt and panites and threw open my legs. Then, for half an hour, he just concentrated on giving me oral sex. I protested a bit at first––but, what the heck, it felt incredible. He kept on me with his tongue and two fingers inside of me, until I orgasmed - hard and explosively AND without the guilt associated with not coming at the same time as him. Normally, men want something in return. I geared up for it but he left the room and said he’d wait for his pleasure later, which of course, I was glad to give.

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“When larry and I first met I didn’t want to disappoint him. I loved him a lot, he turned me on, and I was sure it was only a matter of days before I had an explosive orgasm. The trouble was, the days turned into weeks, then months. The orgasm never happened. How could I tell him I’d been pretending all along? I had to keep it up. Then, I began to feel resentful. “

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Once, a handsome stranger sat next to me (there were maybe 50 people in the whole theater) while I was pleasuring myself. I sat up quickly, mortified beyond belief. I wasn’t sure he knew what I was doing until without taking his eyes off the film, he slowly reached down under my skirt. I jerked away instantly, but then looked over to see this handsome, powerful and well-groomed gentleman eager to assist. So, very slowly, I succumbed to the pleasure of it with a stranger in a public venue. It was the most powerful orgasm I’ve ever had. Too bad I never saw him again.

It’s easy to see why people are curious about orgasms because of the way in which they’re portrayed in films (mainstream or ‘other’), books, magazine articles, etc. Let’s get serious - orgasms sell. Why do you think that there are 100 different articles or ebooks on that very topic? Have you ever been tempted to purchase, “How to Bring Your Woman to Screaming Orgasmic Fantasy Using Only Garden Tools or Lawn Adornments?” [more tomorrow].

I don’t need to have an orgasm every time. Am I different than all other females? Is a kiss on the neck or a nibble in the ear too much to ask? Other authorities tell us to spend quality time building up the final act. I don’t have that kind of time. Again, it takes me a while to have the big O, but my Jade Chamber needs to be polished once in a while.

I never thought that I wasn’t enjoying it without having an orgasm. If you believe the literature, a generation ago, a large percentage of female adults simply didn’t experience orgasms - what are we to make of THAT? Is it that they were too shy to admit to researchers what exactly they were or weren’t doing in the bedroom. Maybe men at the time were less sensitive and didn’t care whether or not if their partners had serious female orgasms - the forget where you are or what time of day it is kind.

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