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A Solo Orgasm - Selfish and Satisfying

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008 Posted in Female Orgasms, Husband Laments, Orgasm Confessions, Sensual Acts, Trying New Things | No Comments »

Here's some advice that is seldom given but truly important. It's what I call a "solo orgasm." No, it's not sex by yourself, it's when one partner brings the other to a climax, without taking anything in return. My friend ...

Two Vital Ingredients of Successful Sex

Thursday, February 14th, 2008 Posted in Female Orgasms, No Foreplay?, Orgasm Confessions, Sensual Acts, Trying New Things | No Comments »

The two vital ingredients of successful sex for women who have trouble climaxing are often overlooked or taken for granted: namely rhythm and concentration. We have said again and again that in the early stages of learning to have an ...

Masturbation in a semi-public place: orgasm ecstasy

Thursday, January 31st, 2008 Posted in Trying New Things | 3 Comments »

I know what you're thinking. "You've got to be out of your mind!" Maybe, but listen up: Try it. Start with the restroom or your cubicle or in the library. Just exert a little pressure in the right place and ...

Wanted: Sex, Orgasms not Required

Sunday, January 27th, 2008 Posted in Trying New Things | 1 Comment »

Has your husband ever persuaded or convinced you to have sex when you didn't want? I mean other than to get him to shut up, have you ever relented? "What's he gotta do," he asks me? I tell him that ...

Open Letter About Female Orgasms

Friday, January 25th, 2008 Posted in Female Orgasms, Orgasm Confessions, Trying New Things | No Comments »

Yes, we want them. That is, we think we want them. Maybe it's been so long we forget if we want them or not. I never thought that I wasn't enjoying it without having an orgasm. If you believe the literature, ...

Too tired for foreplay…

Monday, January 21st, 2008 Posted in Husband Laments, Trying New Things | No Comments »

We understand why men ignore foreplay. It speaks volumes about their primal need for immediate gratification and satisfying of ego (and their lack of patience). I ask myself sometimes, does foreplay actually intensify orgasms? I guess the answer is sometimes ...