Masturbation in a semi-public place: orgasm ecstasy
Thursday, January 31st, 2008 Posted in Trying New Things | 3 Comments »I know what you're thinking. "You've got to be out of your mind!" Maybe, but listen up: Try it. Start with the restroom or your cubicle or in the library. Just exert a little pressure in the right place and ...
Female Orgasm Facts (and theories)
Tuesday, January 29th, 2008 Posted in Female Orgasms | No Comments »Step 1: Insert part A into part B, rotate gently 30 degrees and snap into place. Wouldn't it be great if having an orgasm was as easy as following a set of instructions in a manual? Fortunately or unfortunately, depending ...
Wanted: Sex, Orgasms not Required
Sunday, January 27th, 2008 Posted in Trying New Things | 1 Comment »Has your husband ever persuaded or convinced you to have sex when you didn't want? I mean other than to get him to shut up, have you ever relented? "What's he gotta do," he asks me? I tell him that ...
Open Letter About Female Orgasms
Friday, January 25th, 2008 Posted in Female Orgasms, Orgasm Confessions, Trying New Things | No Comments »Yes, we want them. That is, we think we want them. Maybe it's been so long we forget if we want them or not. I never thought that I wasn't enjoying it without having an orgasm. If you believe the literature, ...
The Ancient Chinese Sex Masters and My Husband
Tuesday, January 22nd, 2008 Posted in History of Sex, Husband Laments | 1 Comment »Did you know that the ancient Chinese were familiar with (duh) and documented (hmm) dozens of sexual positions? We're talking 1500 years ago ancient. Some of them were from a book called The Secret Instructions of the Jade Chamber. Not ...
Too tired for foreplay…
Monday, January 21st, 2008 Posted in Husband Laments, Trying New Things | No Comments »We understand why men ignore foreplay. It speaks volumes about their primal need for immediate gratification and satisfying of ego (and their lack of patience). I ask myself sometimes, does foreplay actually intensify orgasms? I guess the answer is sometimes ...
Pleasure Seeker Laments: Sexual Boredom
Thursday, January 17th, 2008 Posted in Husband Laments, No Foreplay? | 1 Comment »Why do attempts at spicing up tired love-lives so often end up making us even more uncomfortable? We follow what we know, what know feels good, after all - man (woman) is inherently a pleasure-seeker. As couples, there are so ...